Tactics

ok, kinda bored.

anywae decided to tap a little keys.

this is called.

dating tactics from an absolute noob. no experience pure theories

1) be extra early [like 5-30 minutes earlier, even if the girl reaches one two hour late. it shows your discipline state and you wouldn't want to upset her if she suddenly came extra early. she can count on you to be at least reliable on punctuality from this....]

2) create conversations [as quoted, "everything under the sun" and added by me, "in the sun and above it. a good way to do this is spend your time waiting for her to think about things to talk about. like movies, games, school... try to figure out something. it makes you look entertaining and prevents her from looking down on you, thinking you're boring and dull.]

3) crack jokes [humour is always appreciated, especially to relieve tension. a girl will be more comfortable laughing with you or at you than staying silent and serious. depending on the type of the girl, whether she's serious or hilarious, you can XL her if she's the latter. she won't really mind, and it'll just make her angry at you in a happy positive way. and if she's the latter, don't always crack jokes in her way, if can, usually make the end of the joke be her. don't overdo it thou. if its the former, GG and just crack jokes on everything BUT her.]

4) keep in step with her [yeah, walking makes a lot of difference. don't walk to fast and let her keep pace. you must be the one with a lot of time, not her. and walk her to as much places as possible like to the bus-stop, her house or whaever. helps with the relationship and helps to gain comfortability with you from her.]

5) when you play arcade, play something you're good at. [of coz, she must be the sporty type, otherwise occasionally attempt this.... like drums, play some arcade game that isn't typical and you can own in. u muz like kinda train up. don't play like soul calibre and screw up each match. she will be dully bored and uninterested. unless she has been making you lose. that one, pretend to be frustrated but helpless in her clutches. pretend she's sadistic and you're the victim. it will help.]

6) be initiative [this is highly diverse to talk about. but basically, think a lot on the date. not about what you're gonna do to her when she invites you to her house, but on-current things. like if she's carrying a load, take if off her burden. like help her carry her books, her bag or something. be gentleman. of coz, you could XL her and pile everything on her. but onli for awhile. don't ever EVER truly mean a XL joke. like don't make the joke real. it SUKS. if she has changed mood or something, change your approach. be sensitive. don't think she has to revolve around u. revolve around her. same with conversation. start it first. and the holding hand part? u gotta be the one. if a girl holds your hand... muz mean she's not in the right emotional state or she's in the exactly right state. but u gotta b the one to be initiative. helps. kinda like, foresighting what comes next. yeah.]

7) no mp3's [and same goes for everything else. no psp, if you can afford one, no music, nothing plugged into the musical or virtual world. no gameboy, no ipod, no handphone. ah... handphone. no msg-ging other people, even if they're your teacher. if u msg, be frank about it. like, "ay, steven ask me to play pool again... i sure win he still ask..." you know? don't be like, "haha, this friday got match again, gonna pwn all of them. you got see my razor? with an aegis and divine sure gone case all." simply put, DON'T USE ANY ELECTRONIC device. she can, you can't. she can b msg-ging her ex-boyfriend how u suk but don't bother. who she msg, don't care. until you've reached the higher levels of relationship where she holds your phone for your other half of your lifetime and yours to hers. no electronic, non-electronic device that pulls your attention from her. all attention on HER. except when you're showing off.]

8) money [it is the least respectable aspect, but it make half the world go round. the half you'll currently be in when you're with her. make sure u got lots of it. so that when something happens, you always have the extra cold hard cash to cough up. yeah? imagine being broke infront of yer date... suks... and of coz... don't spend too much.. but treat her when possible. little things will do. don't go big when you're not sure if she's gonna b the one.]

9) dress code [dress to impress. see, if she dresses slouchily and all... you can forget the materialistic factor of her. but if your date arrives and she kills you with one look, rmb to dress up too... but you must take all this into beforehand consideration. dress smartly, for the occasion and with a bit of funkiness. IMPORTANT NOTE. DRESS SO THAT OTHER GIRLS WILL BE JEALOUS OF YOUR DATE COZ SHE'S WITH YOU. yeah... be the eye candy. make all the other girls look at you and then your gf will feel the intensity when girls are jealous of her. of coz, don't look them back and make your gf think you're a flirt. and don't dress to overkill. don't make it as if she's not pretty enuff for you. for the materialistic farts i mean.

10) manners. [yeah, gentlemanness.... open the door, wait for her to get up blah blah. this is self-taught. people who need to learn it need to get a boyfriend before a girlfriend. and i'm so not talking about girls.]

11) bag [yeah, this is important. if you're going to somewhere slackish where u dun nd to bring anything at all, heck this. but go for a movie or something, bring everything along. tissue paper, jacket, water.... necessities for wimps, but it will help if your date is cold, needs to blow her nose, have a dry throat blah blah. band-aids are good too. be prepared to survive the onslaught of girl problems brought forth by dates. yeah yeah? prepare for all scenarios.]

12) do a checklist b4 u leave for your date. [yeah, go for a date with everything on you and not at home. don't go and then forget something. wooks man.]

13) don't be a bastard. [you can jio two at once, heck five at once. don't jio one when u already got one. that's all you need to know.]

14) respect!! [respect her. after that, you're all set.]

15) attitude [be courageous, be brave be anything but shy and cowardly. well... not anything... but u know wad i mean. and have a positive attitude. don't dread this date no matter how much it suks. unless i tell u to dread it.]

16) ask her out on an appropriate date [yeah, ask her out on a good day. not some day when she's all cramped up and u hafta feel the reject when she refuses becoz of her duties.]

17) have meals together [like dinner or something. don't be a cheapo and meet after lunch and go back after dinner. kinda suks on the guy]

18) treat her like a good friend but not a potential girlfriend. [helps for those who gonna get their head muddled up in thinking omg! she's going out with me!]

19) be nice, smell nice. [yeah, no stinky breath!!! and don't do sick things either. it's all under gentleman.]

20) last advice. unless you're confident, go out in a small group. helps relieve tension...


and that's all i could think of.

Emotions

This is probably a rare treat for you all. May come back on another blue moon.

cornflakes with cubicular loackers are nice with cold milk.

There is something going on in my head now, and i can't get it out.

It's emotions beneath emotions, motives under as said, and secrets covered

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thiS is the one i've hung around most than the other two, kinda like my information source or lIke my nice friend i have. right now more of studies, but hardly inteRact much. looking at perspectives, kinda feel weird with the person that hangs aroUnd her... to me i guess... but hey, what do i know?

this is probably what got me. the friendship of the first to the second.i know i've gone through the facts and conclusions, but i Just simply can't figure out why i'm edging away. All my thoughts start to begin with her... maybe becoz she brings more attention. her looks change by time though. mornings and evenings are different. sometimes i forget if it's actually her. Everything, towards her though, has slipped off to the chain below me...Like the first to the second, the second to the third.

Miracuously, i did the one rule i knew i shouldn't in... i incorporated her into my life. i tried i think. i tried to incorporate. it was a slight touch, but i guess its all just for friends. besides, the time i msg her was becoz of something, the true intention involves Attention.Virtually no one knows about what i'm saying, not even if u can figure out the hints i've droppe. I, for one, think i got myself into a nice save. i don't want to extend too far, but i know what i'm going for. she's slower than the above, slower in most aspect. haven trialed the second. but she is one that can turn very friendly and laughable. i'm suspecting its just me only. and can i go through with this? with my other cliques, other backgrounds behind me, will i survive? can i even start the survival in the first place... Sadly, i think not. oh well...

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just wanted to express some of my thoughts. i nv tried this out. get the first, go for the second, grasp the third.

to reach the goal, one must overcome obstacles. to reach the goal unnoticed, one must be with the obstacles.

motive under motive, the tiny little drives that i make so i can see the next morning.